Al-Anon Suffolk Information Service

ASIS, PO Box 490, Farmingville, NY 11738

February 14th, "Choices 2010", the Suffolk Al-Anon day of workshops will be held at St. Joseph's college in Patchogue. For tickets and more information, please check out the flyer here ****Saturday, February 20, 2010   7:30pm - 10pm CHOICES ADULT CHILD GROUP 15TH ANNIVERSARY, corner of Deer Park Avenue & Washington Avenue, Babylon, NY 11702 FOOD * SPEAKERS * FUN * RAFFLES * FELLOWSHIP **** Saturday, March 6, 2010, 1:00PM – 5:00PM- AMIAS/Group Sponsor TRAINING (Al-Anon Member Involved in Alateen Service) Click here for the flyer****

For more information please call: 631-669-2827 or e-mail: info@al-anon-suffolk-ny.org
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Did You Grow Up With a Problem Drinker?

 
 
Answer these questions to see if you are still affected today.
 
1.
Do you constantly seek approval and affirmation?
2.
Do you fail to recognize your accomplishments?
3.
Do you fear criticism?
4.
Do you overextend yourself?
5.
Have you had problems with your own compulsive behavior?
6.
Do you have a need for perfection?
7.
Are you uneasy when your life is going smoothly, continually anticipating problems?
8.
Do you feel more alive in the midst of a crisis?
9.
Do you still feel responsible for others, as you did for the problem drinker in your life?
10.
Do you care for others easily, yet find it difficult to care for yourself?
11.
Do you isolate yourself from other people?
12.
Do you respond with fear to authority figures and angry people?
13.
Do you feel that individuals and society in general are taking advantage of you?
14.
Do you have trouble with intimate relationships?
15.
Do you confuse pity with love, as you did with the problem drinker?
16.
Do you attract and/or seek people who tend to be compulsive and abusive?
17.
Do you cling to relationships because you are afraid of being alone?
18.

Do you mistrust your own feelings and the feelings expressed by others?

19.
Do you find it difficult to identify and express your emotions?
20.
Do you think parental drinking may have affected you?
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If you answered "yes" to some or all of the above questions, Al-Anon may help.

 

© "Did You Grow Up With A Problem Drinker?" (S-25)
Reprinted with permission of Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc.
 

TO THE NEWCOMER: Wondering what Al-Anon is all about?

Watch /Listen/Read:

Listen to a series of six Al-Anon Family Group podcasts, especially recorded to introduce you to Al-Anon meetings.

 

Isn't it time to answer the call for service above group level ?

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